Cultivating sensuality can be a great way to cure anxiety and achieve the much-desired peace of mind, as sensuality allows us to become present to what you FEEL, in real time.
It is this ability to move into place you allow yourself to surrender into whatever is alive within you.
It is a devotional practice, where you connect deeper with the higher source.
It is where you activate your feminine radiance to be a magnet to everything you desire.
This is because you are present and feeling into the TOTALITY of life.
Sensuality allows you to not only feel more present but also to feel more into your desires and your longings. And your needs become activated as you attune to your vast, inner landscapes.
When you begin to tune into your sacred sensual nature, you begin to awaken your deepest, darkest, desires which is what sparks all of your new beginnings, new types of conscious relationships, new projects, new ideas.
Sometimes that can feel terrifying because yes, the feminine aspect of you, desires big.
She feels a lot!
And feeling “stuff” can be overwhelming because we think “what if I begin to feel things that I don’t like or that are uncomfortable.”
“What if I desire something that goes against what I should be feeling or wanting?”
Yes this is a very big part of the feminine activation. But usually we deny ourselves from what is really meant for us- the BIG love especially, out of fear.
That’s what I am here for, to guide you and hold the space for you to gather the strength to look within, to allow a whole Universe to open up.
It is precisely this inner world that holds the key to becoming powerful and ready to process life in real life. Without going down the spiral of feeling anxious.
We can allow change in our life and desires to be birthed in a way that feels gentle. And we can do this through sensual practices.
Imagine knowing that when you cultivate sensuality, this can actually help you be calmer and in control of your emotions.
Why hasn’t anyone ever told this to us before?
Well sister, we have not been taught. We have been taught for centuries that this is not the way, and to fear our own sensual nature, because imagine the transformative powerful things that can actually occur if we ALL knew this.
But lucky you are here to change that. And reclaim this power within you.
Are you hiding your sensual nature and blocking your feminine radiance?
Many women who come to me generally say they don’t feel safe to open up to a man fully or they don’t feel safe to reveal their feminine nature, or their sensuality.
Usually they are afraid it will be taken advantage of, or it will make them seem weak.
Does this sound familiar?
And so…..women hide their sensuality and true natural state.
They hide the richness of their expression.
The thing is, when you do this, you deny and hold back the totality of your natural, true authentic expression. Your eroticism.
I saw this many times as well when leading erotic, ecstatic dance circles. Generally a lot of women hide their true expression because of either beliefs about themselves being too much, or worry or doubt what others think.
The fear of judgment kicks in because at the end of the day, we ALL want to feel accepted, right?
These preconceived judgments generally come from past experiences where women have expressed themselves and may have gotten a reaction of shame from others.
I am sure you know what I mean.
Maybe you you were put down for being emotional or intense.
This is why inside the Feminine Remembrance: Come Home To yourself group immersion we dive into shame, especially shame we hold against other women and shame around our own sexuality.
Due to these past experiences, women decide that it is better to withhold this part of themselves which is sensual. Which allows them to express themselves in a way that is open, expressive and so connected to their heart. To reconnect to LOVE. This underlying fabric for all of LIFE.
See how much power you have?
You DECIDE always.
Suppressing your true, authentic nature leads to pain
When women do this, withhold their sensual, feminine nature, they are actually hiding their true self and therefore hiding their highest potential.
Their heart begins to ache.
That is because when the feminine expression is denied, abused or not in her fullest because she feels scared, It is like death to our souls. We hide and kill our longings and desires which are the exact medicine for our highest self.
The suppression of this flow, of this life force is hurting the feminine expression in so many ways.
And can lead you to feeling trapped.
It is like a river who gets stopped by a huge rock. She has nowhere to go, so she begins to overflow. And then she begins to cry out everywhere.
So what can you do?
How can you allow your sensuality to bless your feminine radiance?
The answer is to tap into your masculine.
The type of purposeful, strong masculine. Not the controlling, unhealthy masculine.
The healthy present masculine.
This is how we know we are free.
When you feel safe in a container, you know you are the source of liberation.
Your masculine inside of you will speak to you in ways to help you know, to help your feminine know, it is ok, You can open up. Your masculine is the safe space where you can continue expanding and expressing yourself and experimenting with your inner queen through sensuality.
When we tune into this part of us, we allow our self worth to expand. This is because we stop relying on others’ validation, others’ approval, and their opinions about us to affect us.
We know we are allowed to take up space.
We offer our feminine permission to show up. And that means be in her full radiant, sensual self.
But sister, you need to do the work.
To feel safe in your skin.
This is a process.
This is a devotion.
The truth is you haven’t felt safe. We haven’t felt safe, so we need practices to allow our feminine expression to flow and shine through.
The masculine will also be there for you to know when it is time to set those high standards and from there, your feminine loves with an open heart but she welcomes the inner masculine to set those boundaries. And set them in a way that is clear, and intentional. And with love.
This takes awareness on your end, to know what it is that makes your body feel good and not. And when you know it doesn’t feel good, this is the place that you say ok I am stepping it up and honouring this. Because it is your responsibility to know what your feminine requires so she can continue expanding and shining in her best self.
The last thing we need to do is keep feeding into our old stories which makes us feel less than, or small or not loveable and therefore anxious.
Once you are settled in your worthiness, in knowing how to set boundaries, in feeling safe to express and explore your erotic, authentic self, Guess what?
You have just set up a clear foundation. A container for Her.
A container to continue anchoring into that place of LOVE. Your Truth. Especially when you feel pain.
A place for your sensual aliveness to bless your radiance.
And.. this means no explanations required. You don’t need to explain to anyone what your boundaries are – your energy will speak for itself.
This actually takes a real deal of courage and presence to be able to melt into this space.
Once you move from this place in life you begin to shine a frequency to the world. This means that you will filter out anything that is not a match to your vibration anymore.
This is the beauty of sensuality. As you continue to melt into this space of sensuality, you know what it is that you require as a woman. And your energy speaks for itself. You develop a sense of safety in your own skin and therefore you begin to create an energy that won’t allow things that are misaligned to enter.
People will be touched by your radiance and beauty. And then what is meant for you, will become and enter so easily and effortlessly.
A beautiful way to tap into your sensuality, and radiate your natural beauty is through sacred movement, pleasure practices, visualisation, and breathwork, and I have that just for you inside the 7 day FREE Program: Erotic Woman Embodiment.
A free series that will cultivate safety in your body, help you activate your sensuality and that will help you remember your radiant, magnetic power as a woman.
To discover more about how you can ignite your sensuality as a tool for pleasure and for transformative healing that will leave you feeling connected to love, Learn more about the Feminine Remembrance: Come Home To Yourself 10 Week Sisterhood Container.