The journey into our sensuality and sexuality is the deep reclamation of our greatest power of the divine feminine.

The body is the core of how we define the erotic and pleasure and It becomes such a sovereign act when we claim our own body for ourselves. When we experience and connect with pleasure through the body, our sensuality comes alive, our whole world opens up. We experience the most heightened levels of freedom, and life becomes blissful and beautiful.

However.. when we think of the erotic, sexuality or pleasure, our minds go straight to sexual pleasure or lovemaking, or the way we look and act.  But our pleasure is so much more than what we do in the bedroom or with another person. Cultivating pleasure is loving and living life, it is the orgasmic energy that feeds your vitality, creativity and life force. It is moving away from numbness and distractions and into feeling alive. It is feeling into all your sensations and knowing how to be there, in the body.

A woman’s sexuality has been weaponized and used against her, to turn herself against her. This has left women feeling shame and living around the stories about our bodies and how we should or should not be expressing our pleasures. We may not even be aware of it because it may be generational. We store this information not only in the body but also in the pelvic floor, the womb, which is a woman’s special, portal house for everything in life itself. 

If we don’t have the tools to process tension and energies that are stored in the pelvic floor, it can be manifested in the body in a destructive way. This can be manifested as anger, bitterness, frustration or that feeling that something is not aligned or not feeling true to our heart.

I bet you know this feeling all too well. I did for a very long time.

We all do as women. It is inevitable.

We just have not been given the tools to know how to move this energy in a healthy way.

Working with the body

In order to heal trauma and ancestral pain we are carrying, we have to invite the body in and start working with the body.

Therefore, when you can orient back into your body and your own sexual energy in any kind of expression that is not sexualised, that is not about sex, then you claim back your sensuality in your own authenticity, however that feels for you. 

Remember, if you have read my other posts or follow me on social media you will know I mention this all the time, sensuality is not the same as sexuality.

What is sensuality?

Sensuality is really feeling alive, awake and engaged in your body. When you are able to relate to the reality around you, to the world around you through those lenses, through feeling the aliveness in your body, you can see the world differently and experience the magic of the world and attract amazing opportunities. From this space you experience pleasure because your body is open to receiving and feeling. It is then you connect to who you truly are. And that’s the gift of your senses- To see the world through the lens of our activated senses which shifts how we then see the world.

Registering safety within ourselves

It is important we register safety within ourselves so we can begin to experience all the beauties and pleasures of life. This will help us to calmly come back to this safe container in the body. When you feel calm and safe in the body, then you bring a whole new meaning to what it feels like to experience pleasure in life. And it is then, when you understand for yourself how to come back to the safety of your body and cultivate presence. Then you are able to embody and show your partner because you know how to cultivate this yourself and be in the embodiment of your own sensual embodiment.

Therefore, In order for more heightened pleasurable connections, we must manifest safety within ourselves first and understand how that feels in the body, before we feel safe to open our hearts and bodies in the presence of another.

Reclaiming  pleasure and your ecstatic nature is a deep journey of self awareness. It is not about trying to be more sexual or having more sex, no it is a coming back to self. It is a self practice, a personal journey that we must all embark on before it is possible to experience pleasure with another.

And this is exactly what we explore inside the Feminine Remembrance: Come Home to Yourself Group Immersion.

Embodiment practices to reclaim pleasure

If you get the chance to work with me, you will know how important movement is. We will explore and reclaim pleasure through activating your womb space. When you engage in these embodiment practices, you will open yourself up to your soft, sensual, wild and raw energy of your feminine power all whilst connecting with spirit. 

You will also realise that the embodiment practices are not to heal or fix you, instead they are tools to connect with pleasure and your natural essence so you feel confident and empowered in your own skin. Then…. you know you will always have your own back. No one else is responsible for making you feel a certain way. ONLY You are responsible for making YOU feel alive, free and overall radiant. And you can do this through embodiment practices that cultivate pleasure through your body. Through awakenng your Yoni, through awakening your sensual pleasures through the senses.

The embodiment practices are also practical way/tools  to meet with yourself with the pure motive of using your hands to make connection with your body, to bring a sense of safety within the body as you meet with yourself. When you are embodied and know you better than anyone and what you desire, it is then you can express these with your loved one.

It is time we reprogram ourselves to find and meet with our authentic selves. To connect deeply with self and ignite a confidence that comes from appreciating and loving all that you are- every single part of you.

Watch the video below as I discuss Simple ways to make space for pleasure in your busy life.

Join the self love, feminine embodiment, manifestation 10 week group program where we go on a journey of self discovery for cultivating and connecting with sensuality, pleasure and self love to bring our desires into manifestation. Yes, even the desires of meeting the beautiful King into your life.

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This is a self exploration to FEMININE REMEMBRANCE Come Home To Yourself 10 week group immersion.