Yoni as your sacred portal, the source of life. 

What does Yoni mean?

Yoni is translated from Sanskrit as the sacred temple. 

It refers to the vulva. Your vagina. Your womb space. 

And if we really understood how much power and life giving energy this sacred gateway holds, we wouldn’t be feeling so much shame or be so disconnected from her like we are in modern society. 

She really expresses the magic and sadness and power in this female body. As a woman, you are soooo blessed to house these magical powers of creation right here in the yoni. You not only birth a beautiful baby through this channel but also all of your radiant inspirations and creations. This is where we house it all. This is where life all begins. So it makes sense that the yoni is the portal to LIFE. 

It is the most feminine part (along with your breasts) of the woman’s body. It is the cosmic gate through which we are all birthed. 

The yoni is the most receptive and most sensitive part of your body. And because of this, every time you have a painful experience and choose not to feel a certain emotion, you create an armour around your sexual organs and of your heart as they are connected. 

This armour you carry protects you from pain but it is also blocking you from experiencing excitement, pleasure and bliss in life. We hold our hearts and our yonis closed as a way to protect ourselves. So this work of the yoni is more important than we know. 

So when we are speaking about feminine empowerment, we really need to begin here and develop a deep loving connection with the feminine through the yoni. 

Not many people do speak about this and this is where feminine empowerment really needs to begin. 

In Taoist Tantra, they refer to the yoni as the Gates of Paradise, the Golden Lotus, Precious Pearl, Treasure to describe the yoni. 

How beautiful is that? When I first heard this 8 years ago now, I was in awe. It’s like love opened up within me that I hadn’t felt before. I began to realise the meaning of embodiment.

Return to your yoni for healing

There is still so much derogatory or misunderstanding around the yoni or vagina. And as women it is not something we openly speak about especially when we are seeing or feeling physical discomfort there. 

Most women are completely disconnected from their yoni.Most women i know would never even speak about the yoni and what she looks like. 

 Most women haven’t really seen her and loved her. No fault of our own, it is an attitude that has been instilled within us to not even consider her as this beautiful, magical gateway to love and spirit. . 

Most women have not touched her in the most sacred loving way. 

Most women haven’t connected with her and spoken to her to see what touch she truly desires.And because women haven’t seen and appreciated her for the loving, magical temple she is, the yoni has fallen asleep/. 

This is why it is so important to come into a deep, loving relationship with her to really know your power, to be connected with your vitality and body’s wisdom and intuition. 

I personally dream of a world where we can freely speak about our body and yoni, and the pain or discomfort women feel to make this talk normal. But I also know there is another way than feeling the pain and discomfort. There is a way where you can work on resensitizing the yoni, to wake her up, to make her come alive again from this deep sleep. 

The deep sleep of the feminine. 

Why return to your Sacred Portal AKA yoni?

When you do develop a loving relationship with your yoni, this is when you really listen to her. And she has a lot to say. Believe me. 

When you are connected to your OWN source of pleasure and fulfilment, through her, the less you look for love outside of yourself and you no longer create relationship patterns and sexual dynamics from a ‘needy’ dis-empowered place. You realize you are your own source of power and wisdom. 

You also begin to feel more pleasure in so many ways, that is not only limited to what you do in the bedroom. Our pleasure is in fact limitless and can be experienced in so many ways and your yoni is there to remind you of this when you begin to develop a relationship with her.

What we need to understand is that pleasure is not about pleasure we may know pleasure to be. Pleasure is being open and present with the mystical experiences which has the potential to lead us to magical places. And yes orgasms can definitely lead us there too.

It’s not just genital stimulation that will get you there and lead to an orgasm at this level. This is all about allowing yourself to know how to drop into these surrendered meditative states, fully embodied in your senses and learning to use your body and breath and sound to reach these higher levels of consciousness. 

And this is what we do inside Feminine Remembrance: Come Home To Yourself- the 10 week group immersion.

When you adore your yoni and boy, and worship her as your own Goddess temple she will be so grateful and grant you every erotic ecstasy and pleasure. You become the giver through your nourishment and ravishment of her and she will receive in more ways than you can imagine. This is such a delicious journey of the feminine which is my whole soul’s mission into holding space for women and guiding them into. Because this is such a liberating act.

Healing your sexuality through the yoni

Everybody requires constant healing on their sexuality. And sometimes when we have neglected the yoni, you can feel blocked in your hips, tight when having sex and even pain on penetration. 

So how do you deal with this?

You can offer yourself deep loving attention through relaxation and healing tools to help you safely release blocks stored in the yoni, or as i mentioned the armour that has been built up over time for protection. Again this is what I teach inside Feminine Remembrance.

We often store stress and unprocessed emotions in the yoni and she can speak to us through pain. If she is asking for attention she will often speak through pain- either in sexual experiences, or even during your period. She can show up as dryness or burning sensations during sex, a sense of numbness which shows up as dried up energy for life

Which is why this work of returning to her, is so vital- To feel more connected to your body wisdom, to ignite your vitality and to renew the source of your life-force energy.

Worshiping the feminine in all her forms

When we express our appreciation and love of the yoni, what we are also doing is worshiping the feminine in all her forms. By worshiping the yoni we are worshiping the Universe, Shakti and the truth of being a woman. 

We return to the true meaning of being a woman.

We come back home to the truth. 

Because we see the yoni for what she truly is, the Universe, the wholeness, the divine. 

We can see the divinity that we are through this magical portal. And we begin to see subtle shifts occurring in and around our lives if we choose to see. 

We realize here that we are not separate but instead one with spirit. We carry this within us. The source of all existence. 

So what is the relationship with your yoni?

A. Unexplored

B. Curiosity

C. Loving it

D. Resistant

E. Something else?

Let me know in the comments below.

There are many yoni healing modalities you can do  to practice awakening and healing your yoni for example yoni massage, yoni steaming and yoni egg practice. 

Inside Feminine Remembrance:Come Home To Yourself, I have a whole module dedicated to “Yoni Awakening,” where we where we conscious women, will enter a sacred space, be taken on a journey of self awareness, pleasure, connection and love to honour and heal your relationship with your womanhood. We explore the depths and corners of our yoniverse through our sacred touch, or in a yoni massage. For this is where true feminine empowerment occurs. 

We also have a module where we expand into our visibility in a yoni gazing ritual which I love.

This can help you become vulnerable and open with yourself. To look into your deepest intimate part and allow all fear and discomfort to come through. This is how you choose safety and courage. This is how you become a witness and see your fear, your strength, your power, your beauty. This is such powerful work which I am so grateful to share.

I would love to have you join the waiting list and if you have any questions feel free to connect with me.

In my 7 days free series Erotic Woman Embodiment– There is one practice where you will connect with your yoni through a beautiful gentle, self love connection of the yoni through visualisation. I would love for you to join. It is free and such a beautiful and gentle way to begin this journey of self love, yoni and womb healing and pleasure.