I don’t feel sexual. 

I feel afraid to really tell him what I want. I don’t even know what I desire. 

I feel unfilled. 

I have a low libido. 

I am too busy to feel intimate. 

I am very sexual, why do I feel unfilled in my relationships then. 

I have never had an orgasm. 

I don’t believe that I can have that mind blowing sexual experience as I am not as beautiful or sexy as you. 

When he touches me, my body tenses up. 

These are some of the things that women have said to me in the past. And the thing is they have all wanted to feel pleasure. And they think they don’t know how or they think they are not feminine or sexual enough and therefore there either must be something wrong with them or they don’t think they are desirable enough. 

My point to all of this is sometimes we are creating excuses as to why we are not deserving of intimacy, or feeling amazing in the body or receiving pleasure.

These places of resistance are really where your light, your vibrant magic lies. It is just that maybe may feel overwhelmed and not know where to start. We feel unconsciously pushed to keep going “push ourselves” into business, life, sex.

And you know what, I don’t blame us…. We are taught how to have sex, how to orgasm, how to be sexual, how to be a woman (even more so with social media now).

We have so much coming at us.. No wonder we feel intimidated and overwhelmed. We feel intimidated at the idea of letting our body go and move in a way that is erotic so we tense up. We fear the judgements. And so we walk around with our pussies asleep, our hips tight, and we are having sex like a man. 

This is why I have created this video to debunk the sex myths that could be blocking your feminine radiance.

These myths around sexuality have come from my own experience and from very similar stories from the women who have come to work with me in my spaces. We need to start restoring our feminine energy and realise some of the stories and beliefs that may be blocking our sexual radiance and sacral chakra. In this way, we start to walk into relationships and life in a more empowered way.

The level to which a woman knows her sexuality is dependent on how she relates to herself. 

So the more you allow yourself and give yourself permission to not only feeling amazing and feel pleasure, but to also know how to feel all of your different emotions, sensations and the different facets of you- messy wild, dark, emotional, all of it, the more you open up your partner and allow him to offer you the world to you. 

If you are desiring to continue to heal and meet with some of your shame or resistance around not only being sensual and sexual, but to expand into your big vibe, I invite you to Feminine Remembrance: Come Home To Yourself- the 10 week immersion.

Feminine Remembrance is the path of coming home to yourself. Where you understand connection, intimacy, pleasure on a whole new level.

You will walk away knowing that when you shine in your pleasure and power you are doing it not only for the joy of your beloved but for the joy of all as your deepest Service.

In this group immersion,  you will awaken to your feminine essence.

We will start the immersion by building safety within your first through touch. We cultivate a safe anchor in your body as well develop a sensual lifestyle so you can really help your inner feminine to feel radiant and shine from inside out.

And then in this way.. We slowly and gently build up using somatic practices like touch in ritual and slow sensual movements… before we start to dive into the more juicy connective practices like the breast massage, and before we start to gaze at our yoni and touch her with so much admiration and love.  Because this is where the real healing lies. 

Check out this blog about connecting with your YONI.

After this we come together and we unleash our wild woman. And experiment what it really feels like to be free…. 

Beneath the layers, the triggers, the shame, the guilt, the fears, there is a woman who is relaxed, and knowing of her worth. So she knows, so you know, how to walk in life feeling sexually radiant, orgasmic, in love with your desires and not afraid to raise your standards in a relationship.

For more details click here.