What really is in a woman’s power and what does this really mean?

When a woman is in her power this has nothing to do with wearing red lipstick, wearing a suit or being the loudest in the room to be heard.

A woman’s power is not in her having sex like a man.

A woman’s power is not in her needing to be a bitch and put other’s down to show whos boss.

No…

A woman’s power is her sensuality and the connection with her heart, womb and body. It is in her embodiment of all that she is. She does not try to be more than what she is at her core.

It is not what she does with her mind that is powerful, it is the way she is able to feel into her body. Then it is the way she trusts her sensations to take intentional action from that place.

She knows that she can access this powerful energy through her sexual energy, her life force, her intuitive wisdom she carries within her womb and heart centre. It is the way she is able to feel so deeply and be open about it. She knows that with her soft nature she is a magnetic force of energy. This is constantly running through her body, like the endless flow of the river, moving sensually down the banks. A woman who is so connected with her divine feminine nature melts and feels into her body, she experiences all of her senses and embodies them in her reality. She feels safe in her own presence, her own being.

A woman’s power is in Her body

A woman who is in touch with her divine feminine nature uses her body as a vessel for all of life. She uses it to move her feminine energy which embraces spirit, God, divine, love, light. This woman then knows how to be in balance with her sacred masculine, who is so rooted in her self worth and groundedness. She understands not with her mind but her inner knowing, how to be rooted to hold all of life.

She knows how to use her sacred body as a way to process and feel all of her emotions, energies, sensations, and connect with her womb to allow these stagnant, dark energies we all feel as women. To trust the womb and heart to work together to then transform these into healthy energies of love, compassion, empathy and forgiveness for self and others.

Sister, You have the power to change the world, this masculine (wounded) patriarchy, modern world we live in. You dictate the path you want to take and who gets to be so lucky to ride along with you.
When you set this tone from a place of, love, enlightenment, a deep inner knowing and groundedness of what you deserve, and not from the ego, attachments and old patterns, your life flows with ease and you attract relationships that match your frequency. You become a magnet to everything your heart really desires. Then the situations and people who are not resonating with your heart, will only have to fall away or respect this path of enlightenment.

A woman in her power knows that she dictates the tone in her relationship

You dictate the tone and the flow of your relationships. This does not mean belittling men or needing to prove anything. No this is knowing who you are that is true to your heart- your needs, your desires, your vulnerabilities, your boundaries and expressing them with love and integrity.

He will then want to walk hand in hand with you on this path of tranformation.

Believe me, he will follow your lead. He will want to do anything in his power to reach your highest potential (if he is grounded and empowered). This will empower him to be the best version of himself. If he is ready for this transformation and growth, he will not belittle, or patronize you, he will continue to grow to hold this spaciousness for you.

You are the portal of the Universe, the Divine. You are the Oracle.

Men will follow your tone and then he will take action to be in his healthy, strong masculine, or not. You can’t control if he doesn’t. You don’t control where he is and how far he wants to come with you. He needs to have a willingness and that is up to him as much as we want him to “change.” This can be hard for us women, because we always see the good in our men and we only want to love and be loved.

But you have the power to dictate what happens next.

You have a choice.

But you must know the signals and messages of your body. Your intuition.
Never disregard your feelings and the dialogue of your beautiful temple body. She always knows your truth. Feelings of tension, anxiety, and unsafety are not what define the relationship. But they can be wonderful sensors and messages for what you decide to do next with them.

Your blessing in this world is to always listen and surrender to them. Always listen to the sweet melody of your heart and know what resonates with her. You are deserving of nothing less than love and to feel like a Goddess because…

You are the Universe.
You are the oracle.
You are the representation of Love.
You are nothing short of that.